Is SA for Me?
That's a question only you can answer. But you can't rule SA out, until you let SA in. Give the program a chance, and attend at least a few meetings to see if you can identify with some of the problems that we face together.
If you can answer "Yes" to a few of these questions, you may share our problem and benefit from the solutions we can offer:
- Have you ever thought you needed help for your sexual thinking or behavior?
- That you'd be better off if you didn't keep "giving in"?
- That sex or stimuli are controlling you?
- Have you ever tried to stop or limit doing what you felt was wrong in your sexual behavior?
- Do you resort to sex to escape, relieve anxiety, or because you can’t cope?
- Do you feel guilt, remorse or depression afterward?
- Has your pursuit of sex become more compulsive?
- Does it interfere with relations with your spouse?
- Do you have to resort to images or memories during sex?
- Does an irresistible impulse arise when the other party makes the overtures or sex is offered?
- Do you keep going from one "relationship" or lover to another?
- Do you feel the "right relationship" would help you stop lusting, masturbating, or being so promiscuous?
- Do you have a destructive need—a desperate sexual or emotional need for someone?
- Does pursuit of sex make you careless for yourself or the welfare of your family or others?
- Has your effectiveness or concentration decreased as sex has become more compulsive?
- Do you lose time from work for it?
- Do you turn to a lower environment when pursuing sex?
- Do you want to get away from the sex partner as soon as possible after the act?
- Although your spouse is sexually compatible, do you still masturbate or have sex with others?
- Have you ever been arrested for a sex-related offense?
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